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You've seen people bored with their marriage partner, and on
some happy occasion you've probably seen a few who delight in
each other.
No one sets out to be unhappily married,
so what's the difference between the marriages that sparkle and
those that die?
That very question surfaced eighteen
years ago as we were seated around a conference table in a
Chicago high-rise office building waiting for lunch to be
delivered. We were all computer professionals. Nine of us. Eight
of us were divorced.
Quite naturally the eight were all
interested in the reason that the one was not divorced. What was
his secret?
He confessed that when he was looking
for a wife he asked the advice of his professors at a prestitious
Eastern university. One very wise professor told him to find
someone he could talk to... for fifty years.
And so he did.
And so can you.
It may take time but probably not as
much time as you have already wasted using the serindipidy method
or waiting for that person to spot you from across a crowded room,
or in a library.
Let us together apply the wonders of the
Internet and computer rapid search capabilities to aid you in
finding an interesting mate.
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